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Janelle Ryan

5 Leadership Traps (and a solution to each)


"No matter how many hours I put in, I'll never get through my to-do list."

"I'd love to quit my job and move to a remote island."

"It's all so pointless, I mean who really cares?"

"I don't eat well, I don't sleep well."

"My friends gave up on me years ago - they grew tired of my work always coming first."

“I’m just so tired all the time. I wish I could sleep for a week.”

"There are just too many changes. I don't think I can do this."

Have you ever heard yourself saying any of these things?

If it takes you an entire weekend to ‘recover’ from your week at work...

If you return from a holiday with the intention of ‘getting through’ until the next one...

If you are spending less and less time with partners, family and friends...

If you’ve forgotten what you used to do for fun...

If your health is suffering...

If you feel drained or unable to cope...

If you feel irritable at work...

You may be on the road to leadership burnout (physical and mental exhaustion). Signs include chronic illness, anxiety, extreme fatigue, bodily pain, loss of appetite and depression.

From my very own experience, and through my research, I've identified five top reasons leaders experience burnout:


1. Self-doubt/Impostor Syndrome 2. Limited communication skills 3. Ineffective time management 4. Unrealistic self-expectation 5. Loneliness


If any of these feel familiar to you, stick around as I'm going to address these in turn and give you one tip (to combat them) you can trial today. Suffering from self-doubt or impostor syndrome? You've nailed the promotion, but now you find yourself in a seat you suddenly feel a little shaky in. What if you're not good enough? What if you can't do this? Try this: Trust in the people who trust in you. You were appointed into the role for a reason, most likely by a panel of people you greatly respect. You didn't fool anyone. You are there because you're the right fit. Bring forth those wonderful skills, strengths and gifts they see in you. Could communication be better between you and members of your team? Try this: Design some open-ended questions that will glean the information you desire from your individual team members. Allocate some 1:1 time to pose your questions, hold your tongue and listen. And listen some more. Listen and Silent contain the same letters for a reason. Missing deadlines? If you find you can't complete your work in the allocated time frame you may not need a time management course. You may need to work on your focus. Worrying about whether or not you're doing something 'perfectly' is not being focused. Worrying about getting it 'wrong' or messing it up is not being focused. Worrying if it's as good as your predecessor’s is not being focused. If you are not focused, how can you be doing your best work and doing it efficiently? Try this: Bring yourself back into the moment (and focused on your work) with a tool that uses one or two of your senses - drinking a glass of water, squeezing a stress ball or something as simple as noticing your fingers touching your keyboard. I wrote an article earlier this year titled The Judgement You Feel is Real. The expectations we place on ourselves are tougher than anyone else possibly could. If you 'demand' your confidence arise in your new leadership role (even though the role is bigger or bolder than ever before), if you feel as though you should know everything right now, it's time to flip the switch. Try this: Remind yourself that confidence is created from taking action - not the other way around. Remind yourself that everyone needs time to settle into a new role. High 5 yourself for each small step you take as you settle into your new role and remember your confidence, and knowledge, are increasing every day. Loneliness is a key leadership trap! The higher we move up the corporate ladder, the less peers we have. If you find yourself feeling lonely, isolated, disconnected or left out at work try this: Create a silent advisory board for yourself, people you can confide in, bounce things off or share challenges for a fresh perspective. They may be mentors, coaches, fellow executives at other organisations or all of the above.

If you are new to leadership (or see it as your next career move) and would like to explore how you can lead your team from a place of joy, confidence, enthusiasm and energy...even when times are challenging...with me as your coaching my BRAND NEW leadership masterclass is now open.


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Until I see you again, stay healthy and safe. 


Janelle x



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