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Writer's pictureJanelle Ryan

Fewer Faceplams, More Joy: Your Emotions are Not in Charge


Self-awareness is like the Swiss Army knife of personal growth—versatile, reliable, and surprisingly sharp when you need it most. When we take the time to understand our emotions, behaviours, and the ripple effects they create, we unlock a powerful ability to shape our lives with intention (and hopefully fewer facepalm moments).


The Power of Emotional Awareness


Emotions are like toddlers on a sugar high: they demand attention, often at inconvenient times, and ignoring them rarely ends well. But instead of letting them run the show, we can learn to decode what they’re trying to tell us. Feel frustrated? Maybe you’re overcommitted (again). Feeling joyful? That’s a clue to what lights you up. Understanding these signals helps us respond thoughtfully, not react like a bad soap opera character.

Behaviours as a Mirror 


Have you ever caught yourself saying, "Why do I keep doing this?" Whether it’s snoozing the alarm five times or avoiding that awkward conversation, our behaviours can feel like they have a mind of their own. Spoiler alert: they don’t. They’re just patterns we’ve developed over time—some helpful, others... less so. By recognising these habits, we can swap the autopilot for a manual override and steer ourselves towards choices we actually like.


Your Impact on Others 


Here’s the thing: you’re more influential than you think. (Yes, even if your dog doesn’t listen to you.) Our emotions and behaviours create a ripple effect, and no one’s immune to them. Being aware of this isn’t just good manners—it’s the secret sauce to building stronger relationships. When we show up consciously, people notice. And they’ll thank you for leaving the passive-aggressive emails at home.


Anchored in Awareness 


When you combine emotional insight, behavioural understanding, and a keen sense of how you affect others, you build a psychological anchor—like a GPS for your best self. This anchor keeps you grounded, helps you avoid unnecessary drama, and points you in the direction of joy, fulfilment, and fewer late-night regrets.


As one client insightfully put it: "I understand my emotions, my behaviours and my impact on people around me a lot more. This understanding gives me an anchor to make better choices, to be happier."


Self-awareness isn’t about being perfect (who wants to be that person anyway?). It’s about progress, and every step forward makes life a little lighter, brighter, and, dare I say it, more fun.


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Together, we’ll explore these transformative principles—and maybe even have a laugh or two along the way!


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